The paradox of human nature

Who are Humans?

It is believed that Homo sapiens evolved in Africa around 300,000 years ago, yet even today we still do not fully understand who humans truly are, where consciousness emerged from, or why we exist at all. As a naive thinker, I define humans as a species capable of nearly every instinctive act found in the animal kingdom, yet uniquely able to transcend the body through imagination, creativity, and the endless reshaping of the world around them.

1.Humans love change around them.

Let me present a fact on why humans always love a changing environment around them. Examples of this include why husbands and wives fight for some time and get together the next minute, why people suddenly become angry, and why humans often prefer another partner even when they already have one. The average American worker also changes jobs approximately 12 times during their career. The same idea can be seen in why empires fall, why new ones emerge, and why humans have never been able to live in complete peace among themselves.

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The reason for all of this may be that the human brain is always evolving every second, often expressing itself as creativity. When humans cannot convert that inner change into creativity — through music, art, invention, or new ways of doing things — they begin expressing that change outwardly by changing their behavior, environment, actions, and relationships. A human with no inward satisfaction is often attracted toward constant novelty because the brain is always demanding something new. Hence, war is inevitable.

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This is also seen in politics as when a leader couldn't change a country, s/he is replaced by another who promises to bring a great change. Also, that's why people get into drinking and other addictions.

2.The biggest interest is self interest

Have you ever questioned why Buddha left his wife and child for his own exploration, why people endlessly chase money and power, why thieves steal, why friends slowly grow apart, or even why you are in the profession you are today? Much of human behavior, directly or indirectly, is driven by self-interest. Always think of: what value could I provide to that person than what could I get from that person - you will always be in win. This is why, those who exactly know what the other person wants always have a upper hand in negotiation and the Iran truly knows what America wants.

2.The two characteristics of human brain

The system 1 (unconscious) brain of human always takes the decision very fast and the human brain is very forgetful over the long period of time. But here is a catch. The male tend to take any decision very fast and he may not be forgetful of the things related to his ego until the thing is in his optimal self interest. On the other hand, female tend to take more time to take a decision but they don't take anything to their ego and are very emotional. Woman also take some things in their deep heart but the ego of man is far dangerous than that of female. So, beware of that. I am fucked writing this and donno if it is true or not. FUck me. Actually, you could divide any people into these three category and I had been searching this for my whole life and now, I could implement this model anywhere. I mean you look at a child and you fit them into the categories, the youth, the old basically everyone. i) Those who are not conscious of their life and just want only sex in priority and other things like money, cars and those who just want to have in life and they are good to go. They could change the girls if they are not satisfied from the first one and their life collapses thinking about this. Their thinking is all about dopamine hit and constant brain simulation. For eg: child who smokes, youth who is just kissing his partner without realizing what he is doing and arguing and dating and spending time with her all day, and an old man without any knowledge who just want to have sex with his daughter and daughter-in-law. ii) Those who are little conscious and don't see everything based on bodily level, sex, and they are not too much after money. they learn some music, they read some great books and they could identify other consciuous person and if they marry they could spend their whole life happily thereafter. The managers in banking, teachers, hrs, must be these kind of people. for eg: narayan murthy, sushant singh rajput. iii) Those who are so conscious that they fucking don't care about anything or anyone. They just are kinda people sent by the god in this world. For eg: Osho, sadhus, ramanujan, vivekananda, nikola tesla, einstein. the person in phase one could go into phase two by being so much conscious: through constant meditation and taking yourself to the most dangerous situations of life, like for eg: giving away or donating all of your money. This is just an example. Thank you and always aspire to get into level three or phase three whichever phase you are into.